Am I not seeing something that is in front of me - am I going on a date?
LouR - Man's opinion here since you asked for one.
Yep. It's a date.
But - He appears to be coming into it with no expectations and is sharing a common interest which is a good basis for a friendship.
If there are no red flags then absolutely go and have fun. Make sure too that people who care about you know where you are - standard being safe stuff especially since you are going by the sea-side which has it's own physical risks.
Keep your own expectations low and keep your emotional and physical distance and don't allow any lines to be crossed that you don't want to be crossed. To make it more clear you could consider driving there separately. That shows that you are independent and makes that a reality. Perhaps have plans that take you in a different direction later.
He sounds like a nice guy and maybe you'll find some ambergris!
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