Jeep -- what she's doing is illegal in a lot of states. Talk to your lawyer. You may be entitled to a restraining order. That is really beyond the pale, if you ask me -- a cheater turned alienator. Not much redeemable there, at all. I feel for you, very much.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)