My wife wants to go to mediation to create a Separation Agreement. What suggestions/advice does everyone have?
Background: She's a WAW who is having an affair and wants out of the marriage. We have 2 kids. For the first two months after BD #1, I pursued and did everything except DB techniques. For the past month, i've been DBing very well.
My goal: Protect my future (i.e. money) and get what i want (i.e. time with kids), while not making things worse. I want to find DB opportunities in the mediation session to make her question her decision if only a tiny little bit.
What are your suggestions and experiences from mediation used to develop a formal separation agreement?
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
