I think we all have moments when we feel we can't take it anymore. In my case a tiny gesture can blow everything I'm trying to handle.
I've also been accused of knowing everything, having everything under control and being always right.
Something that has called my attention is that my H is so withdrawn and turned into himself that I believe he doesn't hear anything I say but from his comments I've realized he keeps every single word and comment I say. Maybe, something you said made him think or , at least, didn't make things worse.
