I agree 100%. Crappy sitch for me too, but you know what? I was miserable with myself for 3 months before BD. Our marriage was headed down a dead end road, she could only take so much. To be honest, it's probably the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. It [censored], but I wouldn't have made the changes I needed to make if it wouldn't have. So, in part, I am thankful for her decision because It made me get back in touch with who I really am. Everything happens for a reason, I am convinced of that.
