So Confused and Conflicted (3)

[Bdog37]

Bottom line, what you do with your time to get yourself to a healthy place and improve your relationship skills will serve you well in life. To me, a success is someone who saves themselves and leaves this place a better person than when they arrived. That has to happen before you can save your M/R anyway. And then, piecing is a whole other animal.

So true! My first post ended by saying I hope I come back here and get to tell my "success story". However, in a few months, my W has already met OM2 so now I am done with my M. So I had posted back that my "success story" is the fact that I have learned and gained so much from the people on this forum and countless articles, that I now feel 100% better about myself and will carry over what I have learned.