Absolutely feel the same today.....do I still miss her, of course. But it hasn't consumed my thoughts today. I plan on signing settlement if she agrees to a few minor changes.
As far as what my attorney said, she just kind of gave me a reality check about the whole situation and was pretty firm about it. I guess it took hearing it from her for reality to sink in.
I'm not giving up by any means, who knows what the future holds. But for now, I am accepting the fact that D is going to happen and i am ready to see what the next chapter has in store for me with or without W. Going to continue DB'ing as well. It can only make me a better person.