Ugh, I can't imagine that feeling, sorry. Sounds like you took it in stride though all things considered. It is perfectly healthy to acknowledge the pain that comes with it and then pick yourself back up. Proud of you! You seem to be a very strong person and I admire it.
Goodness knows what on earth she was thinking texting you that. Maybe she did expect you to say "btw I got the papers", or maybe she was just being friendly because she felt guilt, or maybe she was being friendly because she had regret and wanted to reach out. Really no one knows. Waywards be cray-cray, that's all I know. We can't figure them out no matter how we try, they just do weird stuff. Ha!
Keep us posted. If you need some support as your sitch gets down to the ugly reality of D then you know where a lot of listening ears (eyes) are to vent to. Much love, and stay strong.
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17