That's a lot to deal with. Why did the doctor listen to your SIL? Did she convince your W to proceed with natural birth?
I'm not sure why they listened to her. I overheard bits and pieces of it in the background while I was with my W trying to support her through the contractions. I'm angry with myself for not taking more action and also feel blame for our son's death. I didn't realise how serious things were at that stage. My W didn't know anything about it until we met with our obstetrician about a month after our son's passing, and to be honest, I didn't connect the dots until then.