PS-

Thanks. It helps me to hear your kind words.

I'm not saying it was all my fault, but I played a role. I should have behaved earlier like I had nothing to lose, instead of catering to her problems. Lesson learned.

I've reached a place where I definitely see my wife for who she is and isn't, and do not want her back the way she is, nor do I want my marriage back the way it was. The old marriage is definitely dead.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final