Help - Setting Boundaries, WW in EA - Thread #3

[Woke_Up]

Thanks Sandi, reading it now.

Yesterday was quiet. Got home after7, D5 was still up, took a long time to get her to eat and have a bath, then to sleep.

WW was OK, but was just talking about her eyebrow and eyeliner tattoos.

D5 woke up after midnight, I couldn't get her settled. Lost patience and asked WW to look after her. I was a bit ratty, TBH. She didn't, just made a comment about her needing sleep too with having a bad back, a rubbish bed, and also needing to get up early.

I eventually took D5 into my bed to settle her.

Didn't contact WW all day until SS16 messaged me to ask for a lift after his Youth club. I let WW know what was going on and that I'd gethim after training.

Then got a text from WW saying something was up with D5, that she kept repeating our arguments and was very clingy. (really, this is having an impact, why does she seem surprised).

I replied that I'd noticed she was repeating what we said, and that we had to do a better job of protecting them both from what is going on, and that it's bond to be upsetting for D5.

WW replied she agreed, and that the solution doesn't look good.

I suspect she means we need to separate.