Trying to save my marriage and stop the divorce...it feels inevitable. She is a strong and stubborn woman and once she gets an idea set in her head it's nearly impossible to reverse.
Maybe your focus is in the wrong place then.
What would be different if you were divorced right now? How would your daily life actually change?
My guess is not very much.
So instead of focusing on trying to stop something that has essentially already happened, focus on your improvements and 180s and how to slowly rebuild yourself to becoming happy and healthy with or without your W.
