So Confused and Conflicted (2)

[Cadet]

That may be. Did I say I KNOW? Do you KNOW?

I never said give up hope, but to be realistic. Should he live his life on what she may/may not do? How is that healthy?

What is healthy is for you to follow basic DB'ing
Detach, GAL, Work on self and keep moving forward.
Stop looking backwards and become a person only a fool would leave.