This used to be easier - and a lot more fun, cont.

[DonH]

Lol, funny, as I've already done that! She would be a co-worker of the woman who cuts my hair. She is fun as hell. Not serious dating material, even without the sleeves, but a total blast to hang out with. I didn't say I coukd not be friends - just not romantic.

As for conversation, it depends on the person but rarely do I do more talking. With the woman who ghosted me I seriously think it was 90:10 in that she talked 90% of the time - which was one of her red flags. I'm actually a very good listener. Although remember I said I typically gravitate to outgoing people? Well they tend to talk a lot. So if you were thinking I talk a lot about myself, guess again. I do tend to type a lot - just usually not about me. Lol. I'd say, after a first date, I generally know more about them than they do about me but it's usually pretty balanced or at least usually not 90:10. My fav V from ten hours away was totally 50:50 - another reason she's my fav.