You are on her turf and everyone will take her side. Period. Now the question remains, do you want to carpet bomb them or just do a few surgical strikes with the info you have? I am sitting on a sh*t ton of info I could send if I wanted to but haven't yet. Even though her family and friends are taking small potshots at me, I haven't felt the need to lay waste. However, I told the ex after the most recent attack by her mom that if it happens again that the strikes will begin...not a peep since.
Its up to you. A person can only take so much...and a person has a right to defend themselves and their name. Quite honestly, they don't think twice about saying stuff that could potentially be damaging to ones self or career. Release what you have to when you have to.
I disagree with Jeep here. You can choose to remove yourself from the drama or you can fan the flames. If you fan the flames, you will help her justify her decision. If you remove yourself from her drama, it will help your sanity.
Also, it isn't your job to teach her lessons. Life has a way of doing it on its own. That is some profound wisdom often posted by 25yearmlc.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
