Oh, yeah, one other thing I did, and it has really seemed to help me. I had her in my phone as "[name] aka Wifey", and I changed her name to [name]. That has really helped me, in seeing that she is just a woman, how is treating me like crap.
I like this idea. May just have to do it to mine.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.