12. I will try to make non-threatening physical contact with my W
13. I will try to invite my W to do fun things with me and not react negatively if she says no
I think most of this is good. And in general, I agree with much of the content.
I just want to point out that I think 'try' is kind of a meaningless word. How can you gauge if youve 'tried'? Can you phrase these more so that you can tell for yourself whether or not youve succeeded?