Gump, you hit this one on the head. With the exception of fixing the broken stuff, I did and still do everything else. I see a rude awakening coming for them. I get the sense you feel bad about it. Don't. You took care of your family. That's something to be proud of.
M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated