So nice to read your posts. Always so much positivity even when there are some troubles around. It's amazing how your XH just escaped from his own mess and move forward.
I would think that he is still dealing with the same internal problems he had before. Some people think that if they have a clean slate, then life will be resolved and they forget that wherever they go, they will be there. The old selves will be present in the new picture.
Maybe with time he will realize and face his own issues before blaming someone else for his failures.
But, that is another story and for sure you have no control over what he did, or is doing in his life.
Now, the way you deal with your own life is none of less but amazing. I always envy you in how thoughtful you are and how you can get messed up for a little while and then look the situation from outside and address the proper changes to have a good outcome.
I wish that many of us could have the same self control you have. For sure our lives would be a lot easier.
Sorry to hear that NG seems not so ready to move a little forward, but it's better then have someone being dishonest. At you know that he is a nice human being that won't take advantage of the moment. What actually makes it harder, because if he is a NG with this nice attitude, then maybe he will be a nice partner.
Well, all in time I guess. Maybe things will have another turn and you two can have a chance to spend sometime together.
Toots, you were and are a very nice friend that gave very valuable advices. I wish one day we can meet in person. We have been here almost the same time and your friendship has been a treasure to me.
Hope mom and dad are doing well. Keep being awesome.
Lots of hugs and kisses, Tita
PS.: I am such bad girl, I did not write to RD yet. Shame on me.
