So Confused and Conflicted (2)

[Dawgs]

See, my friend, we've all been there. Trust us when we say it's been a long, long time in the making. She didn't come to the conclusion over night, and the fact that it's "popped in her head" quite a few times will ate eat to that. What it appears is that you are trying to rationalize it into thinking that it's a recent decision, whether on some level it is to make yourself feel better, who knows. But it's not. This - like the affair - was long in the making. The thing is, you need to stop thinking the whys and what fors, because it's only going to bring you pain. Concentrate on you. Unfortunately, you need to look at the future without her.