Gosh, he's still nuttier than a fruitcake! I guess the beret has gotten entirely too tight and his brain cells are squeaking.
Hey, he's finding out what the consequences of his actions are bringing down around him. His debts are not your problem. The judicial system is getting tired of his whining and playing victim, i.e., poor me.
No one would want to be in his shoes. He's is one miserable man and he's going to be stuck in that rut for a long time.
So, how are things going in other areas of your life? How are the children?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.