Irish .... just like when you are in the middle of this all, what you say is not going to make or break this, so do not feel pressure one way or the other.
Reading along, she does seem to be a bit more clear, possible the fog is lifting ... myself having gone through a hard touch and go that I would never want for anyone I admittedly am far more cautious than others may be in your position, especially with the time line ... I know its possible ... but I do think she has a long way to go. Good news is she is actually starting to look within and for her being a vanquisher she does seem to be reaching out more the past several months.
Question is ... is she attempting to manipulate you to gain the inside track to the kids ... or is this an attempt to actually begin the re-connection process
As far as a reply, I think only 2 things I personally would respond to. 1- Glad to hear you have a good therapist helping you along. 2- As always I am open to discussion (you can put concerning the daughters here ... or just leave it open ended depending on how you want to move forward)
