I'm not 100% in the clear as we haven't even begun negotiations and I know all heL! Will break loose when that begins. But I've definitely been able to detach. As the lovely Sotto says, his anger is his to own. He can be as punitive as he wants.... Doesn't mean he's going to get his way. I'm still looking for what's fair, but we're teetering the line with his nonsense. Lawyer bills are adding up. I can't share too much, but your jaw would hit the floor if you knew how crazy this was.
I feel like I've lost every ounce of compassion for him. He's a monster and I see how much of what he's said about me or Acted towards me is a projection on his part. From the dog, to the m, to everything else.... It makes so sense. I've learned to trust myself in this process and know that I'm a good person and his opinion of me is none of my business as he is irrelevant in my world. Adios amigo!
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16