The other night W was upset. I could tell she was upset. I simply told her if she wanted to talk about just let me know and I walked away. About an hour later she came upstairs and just started talking. I just listened and validated. Didn't try to "fix" anything. One thing that caught me off guard was her admitting that she hated feeling "feelings" This has been a huge issue on our marriage. Her locking down all her feelings and not communicating.
How did that feel ??
Pretty F'ing cool when you can sit back and STFU isn't it ??
Originally Posted By: cbtdad
We are going out Friday night. She even asked if we were going to go to dinner first. I said sure.
Easy does it Tiger....
No expectations...
No getting pi$$ed when she doesn't jump you on the way home...
