MaryE, it's odd isn't it? My H went from a completely laid back kinda guy when it came to grooming and now he takes longer than me to get ready in the morning. He literally cuts off stray hairs he sees on his head that he can't tame into place. He does this every, single morning. (Also leaving the stray hairs in the sink. yuck!) He will go into our linen closet to put on his various magic potions.
So, I have been having this overwhelming urge in the last week to blow up both his ongoing affair with the married co-working and his pursuit of other co-worker OW who is dating another co-worker. (It's pretty incestuous and lazy.)
Every time these urges come up, I remind myself to step back and let God handle it. I remind myself not to get involved as it may just push everyone closer together. I have been praying to God for strength.
Well, yesterday I think he may have answered. H and I have an email account that is about 15 years old. We have used it as a central email to communicate with family (he has a very large extended family). H also uses this email when he orders things online. For whatever reason, he used this email yesterday to start communicating with OW. I got some insight to what is going on between them which certainly makes it easier to step back and let things be.
I feel like God answered my prayers. I feel like he is encouraging me to step back and let him work. I am so grateful to Him for this.
