Don't change your location, change yourself

[Gordie]

Mirage,

I've just reading through your threads and updates that are still on this site. If you read this, I have a few questions for you.

1. My W also wants to run off and start a new life with one of her young employees (not sure what they are currently doing and haven't snooped to find out)...while at the same time remaining friends with me and actively co-parenting our children. Any advice on this front...just let her go?

2. It's been six months since BD and I know the teenagers aren't blind. In fact, one of them actually started joking over dinner about my W's recent activities (W and I were both surprised). Any advice on this front as I don't want to say anything negative about my W to the children?