Just a little update. The other night W was upset. I could tell she was upset. I simply told her if she wanted to talk about just let me know and I walked away. About an hour later she came upstairs and just started talking. I just listened and validated. Didn't try to "fix" anything. One thing that caught me off guard was her admitting that she hated feeling "feelings" This has been a huge issue on our marriage. Her locking down all her feelings and not communicating. Just thought it was interesting. We are going out Friday night. She even asked if we were going to go to dinner first. I said sure.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it