Mach 1 - wow, that is a great analogy...thank you.

"You are never going to talk your way out of something that you acted your way into...."

So this could take weeks, months, years, never. The silver lining in all of this is that she is a good person at heart and very forgiving (read my first post). But your right...starting right now complete 180's!!! No other choice at this point. what i have been doing has not worked and actually made things worse.


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17