So what did I do if that's he case? Bring it up in court to better my position? Or just let it go and be done? This is her second marriage, same thing happened in the first. I feel like I should stand up to her (in court), let her have to face the facts and realize what she is doing. I think it be a continuous cycle if I don't stand up to her. And I don't want that for my daughter. Thoughts?