True, hate to tell you. My W is secretly seeing someone already so I know she wishes to rush things in order to date the OM openly
That's pretty much when I threw in the towel. As Dawn70 said, I have too much pride and self-respect to take someone back who cheated on me and lied over and over about it, and then tried to make me look like the bad guy in the whole thing.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.