Originally Posted By: 2016sux

Out of interest, do either of your WS come from conflict avoidant homes? Mine is supremely conflict avoidant.


Exact opposite. My father-in-law loves a good "conversation" on a controversial topic. However, one of the reasons for our issues is that my wife never brought up things that bothered her for the last 6 years. Thats a long time to bottle up resentment that i didnt even know about.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process