Whereas my parents-in-law are standing firmly behind WH. At one point, my F-i-L said, "I have to support my son." I said in response, "You can support and love someone and tell them what they're doing is wrong." He just looked at me and said, "I am not going to do that."
Blood is always thicker than water. Always. Don't even go there as they won't ever support. I found that out the hard way. However, there is an ally for me in her camp...
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Her exact response was, "What else would you have me do?"
See above. They don't want to hear it.
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Out of interest, do either of your WS come from conflict avoidant homes? Mine is supremely conflict avoidant.
Not in my case. They are all about conflict.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
