Agreed, but at the end of the day, where did that get me? Is it about "standing up for myself" and ego, or doing whatever it takes to make it work long term even if that means being dragged through the mud for the time being. Trust me, this is not easy and my mind goes back and forth by the hour. Its touch and go... This is where I left it..."I will respect your wishes of giving you space, but let me know if you decide to change your mind about tonight".
so i even backtracked and asked her if she would go to the program tonight and her response was "absolutely not". About 14 hours ago she was all in for going and we were even go to ride together. Then after texting back and forth all morning, I receive this text from her "Leave me alone, your suffocating me. I want nothing more than to never see or talk to you again right now".
I want this to work but im not a patient person by nature. Do I give her space (how much/how long) or continue to try and get her to go tonight?
Last edited by Cadet; 03/28/1704:16 PM.
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17