In our therapy session last friday, she said she turns to him for comfort. And prior to 2/1/17 before i knew aboyt DBing and LRT, i was snooping and talking to the OM's wife.
Am i prepared for it not ending? Im getting there. I recognize im moving through grief that ive lost a loved one
So, she is still involved with him after you found out and talked to his wife? Man, that is messed up. I think your answer is right there. Not to be a wet blanket, but it is right there.
One of the most unfortunate things is that the grief never really ends...in some form, it will always be with us. Even after all my ex has done and said and given me reason to hate her time and again, the grief is still there. Sigh.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
