Signing would be giving her what she wants. I guess I'm having a hard time accepting that I will be divorced shortly after I sign it. Im probably just postponing the inevitable, short of a miracle. I don't want to give up, divorced or not.
You don't ever have to give up, but you do need to protect yourself. Do you have a lawyer? Protect yourself, my friend. The reason I say this is that they will play nice and then come out swinging. Ask me how I know this.
You don't have to give up...but you do need to have realistic views.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.