PsySara! You were the other person I was praying would come along.
I am going to print out your and Blu's posts and am going to keep them with me and read them everytime I'm about to see WH. Thank you for the wise words.
WH just texted to say he can't talk tonight after all, but wants to talk tomorrow night. In my determination to GAL I made dinner plans and I do not intend to cancel them. The old me would have just done whatever he asked me to do. Am trying to assert my independence.