Time to revisit your 180s. Your WH is expecting a mean, cold, critical and ARGUMENTATIVE person. You are going to knock him off his balance by NOT showing him what he expects. Be busy, busy, busy and keep your conversations short and light. Is this hard? It will be the hardest thing you've ever done. (This is coming from someone who pushed two babies out with nothing on board, that was easy compared to this marathon) Keep yourself looking hawt and cheery. Men love a woman's smile, they love to hear a warm belly laugh. What they don't like is an angry and hard woman. Are you angry? Heck yes! Do you deserve to be angry? Absolutely! But you need to become the commodity that he wants to fight for.

So what is your tactical plan? How do start looking soft, warm, joyful and confident TODAY? You be the prize. Make the OW look like the tarnished, used piece of trash she is. You become classy, sassy and beautiful. You can do this, truly.


M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3