Woohoo PsySara! In piecing! I feel very happy for you that you feel safe enough in the process to say you're in piecing. In my mind I think you're several months into the process already. It's difficult to bare your heart and say you're in piecing when you've been so hurt before. It's a brave thing to do, and I admire you for it.

Your discussion with SkyHigh has been so interesting. I don't know about other newbies, but I used to imagine that if WH decided to come back then the worst was over. I have a friend who is a psychotherapist who says she thinks this is the point when it really gets hard, but I've never agreed before because, to me, having your family intact was worth anything. Your discussion has made me see how extremely wearing and difficult it is. You guys are awesome. I still hope to join your ranks some day.


Divorced and letting go.