Hi mon ami!

Yay, more frequent updates. Yes, a break is good.

RE: the recent emails: hmmm. Exw didn't have a history of drinking/alcoholism while you were together, did she? I'm kind of wondering if it would be helpful to do some reading on Alanon, as she seems to me to be veering into the manipulative addict/alcoholic side unless that is part and parcel also of MLC? I defer to Ellie or Job on that point.

You handled it beautifully for the most part. The only think I might have suggested is leaving out the "you keep throwing crap at me"' sentence, although I understand why you said it.

She is definitely spinning. Isn't it a relief that we don't have to go on that trip with them? xoxoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver