cheesyt6 - 10months in and W is still far away..

[hawker]

I agree with LT....who knows why she asked that since she has asked it in the past and didn't do anything. Maybe she will and maybe she won't. You have been doing great with working on you and you have actually been happy with your new little family!

I get the fear, I was scared all the time about what if she does follow through with the D...what am I going to do without her? What I have learned is that we cannot count on other people to make us happy, we will be let down everytime. We have to love ourselves and be okay with ourselves.

I saw a Instagram post that said "You're gonna be happy," said life, "but first I'll make you strong."

Hang in there and try not to "worry" about what she will or will not do...you can only control yourself!