Help - Setting Boundaries, WW in EA - Thread #3

[Woke_Up]

Gordie

I know, there's no easy way to deal with it. If she pushes the MBR thing, I will have to accept it, rightly or wrongly. I'm still set on taking the study as my space, rather than the spare bedroom, I'm not sure if that is being petty, I'll see how I feel when it comes to it. You're right, I need support. When I spoke to my friend, he agreed counselling was a good idea, and was going to get some recommendations from his SO. He suggested some initial intensive sessions to get my head together and help me deal with things.

Now, WW mindset. I'm lying in bed. WW comes into room, I think to use the ensuite bathroom to brush her teeth before bed. She climbs onto the bed, and lays with her head on my chest. Then says she thinks she might be pregnant, that she feels pregnant! I said if she is, then we really need to get better at this, for the sake of her health. Last time, she had a difficult pregnancy, plus went nuts with hormones - pretty much PMS x 1000 or, as she is as a wayward, I guess. It was a bad time when it should have been a happy time.

Also talks about how she has headaches and earaches and should maybe see a doctor. I agreed it might be a good idea. I asked if she wanted to talk about anything. She shook her head.

Then she says her back hurts, but when I said it was the gardening taking its toll, she said it was the bed. She went quiet after that, went downstairs (another joint, I presume) came back up, brushed her teeth, then went to bed. She did say goodnight.

This stuff is WTF crazy. I'm not even sure if she is doing it deliberately or whether it is just her mindset being all over the place.