I think there are some threads around here from folks who have dealt with verbally and physically abusive spouses. I haven't dealt with that, so feel like I can't give advice. Maybe you need some IRL help on that front too...join a support group? Call the police? Go to a safe house? As a man...I know there is a stigma against that...but it's very difficult to defend yourself in a physical way...and then it's almost always going to be blamed on you. I don't know what to tell you.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving