I do want to know every detail. Every single painful thing that was said and done. I feel like I need to know to move on one way or another. My W's A definitely took planning. Planning for him to pick her up at the airport on her work trip, planning for him to abandon his family on a layover with an excuse of outpatient treatment at his rehab clinic so he could stay in a hotel with my W for New Years weekend, and 3 subsequent trips he's made to my city since then where they stayed in his hotel.
My W has always been an extreme case of LD as far as sex and this guy is an addict where his W is saying sex is his new addiction since he's now being tested for drugs and alcohol weekly. My W is very impressionable and doesn't set boundaries well at all. She's at fault but he definitely took advantage of her and I know she's going to hate herself for what she's done at some point, regardless of her opinion of me.
