Newbie, need help with WAW!

[180Man]

Thank you Cristy & Cadet. I do believe in forgiveness and being able to heal, I know I will be okay with out her if it comes to that, but I don't want to just "be okay," we have/had something special that's worth fighting for. If we tried to work through it for six or twelve months and couldn't get anywhere I'd understand. But a month and a half of counseling with a crappy counselor we both didn't like just doesn't seem like we really gave it a proper go.

I know everyone here has similar situations and stories, I really appreciate the help and support.