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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street MoveFrwd #2731056 02/21/17 01:39 PM
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MoveFrwd Member M Joined: Apr 2016 Posts: 2,045	Originally Posted By: sellout Thank you all for the well wishes and comments thus far. So, its my understanding that I should forgo going to the counseling re/engage program until she gives up the other man? She is saying she wants to go to the program to see if there is any hope in the marriage and then she will give up the man. Seems like a catch 22. My thought process at the moment is that the program is just over 24 hours from now as Im typing this. I have nothing to lose between now and then and I will go with her to the program. Then, after the program is over tomorrow night, in my mind the clock is ticking and perhaps I draw a hard line in the sand with an ultimatum and time frame. Id she refuses to stop seeing him, I can pretty much assume it is over and then continue on with the divorce proceeding in about 28 days. Does anyone think this is a good/bad plan? Thoughts? Its a good plan if you want to be divorced. She has to decide to give up OM. If you try to push her to decide it, she is going to resist and rebel. This divorce is about you protecting yourself -- not about punishing her. Originally Posted By: Kaizen She has to decide to give up OM. If you try to push her to decide it, she is going to resist and rebel. This divorce is about you protecting yourself -- not about punishing her. Sorry, I should have been more clear. I dont think its a good idea to say "If you are still seeing OM then I am going to keep the divorce proceedings on track." Better is to say that "I am not interested in staying in a relationship with someone who is seeing another person." In the second phrasing, it's about you and what you will accept. The first is about trying to control her actions. Last edited by Cadet; 03/20/17 05:20 AM. Reason: Combine posts

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Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/21/17 08:30 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Cristy	02/21/17 11:10 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Cadet	02/21/17 12:05 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Gordie	02/21/17 12:32 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	02/21/17 12:40 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/21/17 12:51 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Cadet	02/21/17 12:53 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/21/17 12:55 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	02/21/17 01:10 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	02/21/17 01:39 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Cristy	02/21/17 02:00 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	02/21/17 01:18 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/22/17 07:03 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	02/22/17 07:19 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/22/17 07:33 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	02/22/17 07:48 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/22/17 08:48 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	02/22/17 09:04 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/22/17 09:22 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	02/22/17 09:28 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	02/22/17 11:05 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Mach1	02/22/17 01:10 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/24/17 08:16 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/24/17 11:46 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Mach1	02/24/17 02:59 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Vanilla	02/25/17 05:54 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/16/17 07:16 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	03/16/17 07:39 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/16/17 07:42 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/16/17 07:46 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	03/16/17 07:52 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Gordie	03/16/17 08:47 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 06:54 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LH19	03/17/17 08:26 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 08:38 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LH19	03/17/17 08:45 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 08:57 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LITB	03/17/17 10:14 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 10:59 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LITB	03/17/17 11:15 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 11:53 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/17/17 12:00 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 12:15 PM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Coconut	03/17/17 01:11 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 01:36 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LH19	03/17/17 01:41 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/17/17 01:51 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LH19	03/17/17 01:55 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LITB	03/17/17 01:55 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LITB	03/17/17 01:57 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Coconut	03/17/17 08:10 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Coconut	03/17/17 11:10 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Vanilla	03/19/17 05:52 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/22/17 06:16 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/22/17 06:53 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	03/22/17 06:56 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/22/17 10:44 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	03/22/17 11:14 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/22/17 11:25 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/22/17 12:23 PM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/23/17 10:18 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/24/17 06:55 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/28/17 07:36 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/28/17 08:01 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	annab74	03/28/17 02:04 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	03/28/17 03:45 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/29/17 11:11 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LH19	03/29/17 11:15 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/29/17 11:18 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/29/17 11:25 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/29/17 11:30 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Mowgli	03/29/17 11:30 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LITB	03/28/17 08:04 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/28/17 08:06 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	03/28/17 08:11 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/28/17 08:14 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/28/17 08:18 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	MoveFrwd	03/28/17 08:26 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/28/17 08:38 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LITB	03/28/17 08:45 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	03/28/17 08:16 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	03/28/17 08:21 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Coconut	03/17/17 12:32 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	LH19	03/17/17 10:53 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Vanilla	03/17/17 02:18 PM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	brizz	03/16/17 07:45 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Mach1	02/22/17 09:28 AM
Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/22/17 09:45 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	sellout	02/22/17 10:07 AM
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Re: Wife with Neighbor Across the Street	Dawgs	02/22/17 10:39 AM

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