WAW had an affair - hurt and confused

[Bdog37]

Truth. I would think that its more than just being caught up in the moment. This took planning

Oh, of course. What I meant to say that while they are doing it they aren't thinking about anybody but themselves. It absolutely took planning. My W even stated that it all started with a few emails back and forth then got flirtatious. She knew ahead of time that she was going to have the A way before it ever even happened. Hell, if it wasn't him then she would have chose someone else.