3 more weeks of semi-dark. wife seems to have become comfortable with it. she doesn't ask for detail on what I am up to and she has stopped coming to bed altogether. some nights she stays up late painting and other nights she sleeps in S4 bed. communication is minimal. I stopped all spying but I'm sure she is still trying to close the deal with celeb. My emotional state is still pretty good. I was sad a few days but mostly I am spending time with kids and getting out a few times a week for fun. I don't think I am going to go much longer without confronting her about her affair. DB coach said not to confront yet but I'm starting to feel more and more like I have no chance unless I bring everything into the light. I am starting to increasingly feel like I could really walk away if we didn't have kids.
