WAW had an affair - hurt and confused

[Bdog37]

(there is a HUGE difference between just sex and that with oral included...HUGE)

I would have to agree. It may be one thing to have some drunken sex one night with someone you know, but to go to the extent of what they are doing is totally different. They don't give a rats a** about their S or their children for that matter. My W actually had the nerve to find a babysitter one time for her A! They are caught up in the moment and don't give a s*** about anybody but themselves.