I probably wouldn't have said anything to her family. They will take her side no matter what and consider her the victim in all this.
I think that's what happened but I had to try or I wouldn't have been able to live myself if she was physically hurt.
OM confessed to his W during counseling. She told me the details but hasn't told him we've been continuing to communicate so she has info to tell when he's lying. Said he and my W had sex the 4 times he has been in my city since the A really began to escalate in December. I strongly believe they had sex the first time while my W was visiting his city but I'm not sure why he'd lie about that. He said they only had dinner together all 3 nights she was there.
He said she told him I physically abused her and am an alcoholic. Neither is even remotely true. I don't know if he is lying or my W is. Not sure what the lie would gain him. Really makes me mad either way.
He said they used protection each time. That she gave him oral sex. That he felt wanted. He said he broke it off Sunday before he flew back home and she cried.
While his W was texting me these updates, he texted her asking her to come over to his apartment he had moved into to help with his laundry. Unbelievable.
