Just because there is a saying supporting an idea, that doesn't mean it's true. I do, of course, believe that one should be very cautious about continuing/reconciling a relationship with someone that has cheated. I think Sandi gives some good guidelines to handle that. But I am just beginning to read up on how to continue after an affair.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
